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Continue reading →: Here’s to love
Better read while listening to “La vie en rose” by Louis Armstrong. February means one thing: the celebration of love. What a beautiful thing it is to wake up to breakfast in bed, fresh flowers waiting for you, and a present chosen with care. Yes, Saint Valentine’s Day may be…
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Continue reading →: From Màlaga, with love
Part I: On Feminism, Food, and Unexpected Friendships Better read while listening to «Queen of Peace» by Florence and the Machine. For my first solo trip in 2026, I chose southern Spain, the historic city of Málaga. The birthplace of Pablo Picasso, and the backdrop of some of my favourite…
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Continue reading →: 100 years of solitude
Better read while listening to “Sunday Kind of Love” by Etta James. No one understands solitude better than someone who has lived inside it. Being alone does not mean being lonely. And some people, I believe, are born with a quiet sentence written in the stars — you will learn…
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Continue reading →: Love is all around
Better read while listening Only for you by Heartless Bastards. Dear reader, It’s been a minute since I last shared an article with you — but as I promised myself, 2026 is going to be the year of me, myself, and I becoming the best version I can be. Somewhere…
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Continue reading →: 2026:New Year, Same Me — But Better.
Better read while listening to Strong Enough by Cher. 2025 was the year I set out to find the love of my life. I invested a lot of time in dating and meeting new people, hoping for a spark, a sign — something real. While I met a few wonderful…
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Continue reading →: Reader, I Left With My Heels On: A Year of Dating, Dirty Martinis, and Finally Choosing Myself
Better read while listening to “Where’s My Husband?” by RAYE.Put it on. Sip something strong. Let’s talk about modern love. Three Days to Go: A Love Letter to 2025 With only three days left on the calendar, 2025 is almost over and the new year is knocking. My dating life…
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Continue reading →: 33 dates later
Dating After Thirty: Where Did the Spark Go? Better read while listening to «Where Is My Husband» by RAYE. 33 dates since May — it’s been a lot to process, not just in therapy but also with myself. And still, not only have I not found my so-called “other half,”…
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Continue reading →: 24 hours of horror
The Difference Between Broken and Rotten Better read while listening to «I was wrong» by Ray Goren I’ve been in and out of this «relationship» for more than 8 months. But it took only 24 hours of horror to realize something devastating: not all broken people are like vases —…
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Continue reading →: On loving too much
Once in a lifetime — maybe more — you meet someone with eyes so unforgettable that you lose yourself staring into them. Some people love those eyes with such intensity that they end up dimming the light in their own. So I can’t help but wonder: is it a red…
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Continue reading →: Having a boyfriend has Always Been Embarrassing
The well-known story of the one and only future queen of England — yes, Waity-Katy herself — is proof enough: having a boyfriend has always been embarrassing. In the last few days, British Vogue published a piece offering what they called a “hot take” on the state of dating in…
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